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Movie Quotes – Day 243

My name is Addison DeWitt. My native habitat is the theater. In it I toil not, neither do I spin. I am a critic and commentator. I am essential to the theatre. — All About Eve

Giving criticism is easy, taking it is much more difficult.  But it’s an essential part of improvement and success.  Even if you have the personal integrity to look at your own work and be able to point out where you have done poorly, getting the perspective of someone else can show you things you never considered.

Of course, how comments are given makes a huge difference.  “You are crossing your thumbs when you bring your support hand up.” is better than “You’re holding it wrong!” or worse.  Criticism needs to be constructive and helpful if it is to be heeded.

Movie Quotes – Day 242

Well, boys, we got three engines out, we got more holes in us than a horse trader’s mule, the radio is gone and we’re leaking fuel and if we was flying any lower why we’d need sleigh bells on this thing… but we got one little budge on them Rooskies. At this height why they might harpoon us but they dang sure ain’t gonna spot us on no radar screen! — Dr. Strangelove:  or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb

When are you out of the fight?  At what point do you pack it in and accept defeat?  It is completely up to you.  You decide when you’ve had enough and want to stop trying, not the one who is hurting you.  This is true in violent situations, but it is even more true in just every-day relationships.  Are you going to let an abusive boyfriend beat you into submission, or are you going to stand up and stop taking it?  Are you going to let a cheating wife get away with it one more time, or are you going to stand up and stop taking it?  Yes, you’ve been knocked down.  Yes, you’re bruised, bloody, and beat up.  But you are not finished until you say so.

Blogs Roundup

  • Graybeard does a good job explaining the difference between .308 and 7.62x51mm.  He also gives us a good graphic on the subject.
  • Ex Bootneck points us to the different field rations used around the world.  I miss the five fingers of death, myself.
  • Drang explains why sometimes the stupid directions are stupid for a good reason, not just because sometimes soldiers are, well, stupid.
  • Some people have all the luck.  This month, at least in the gun department, its Pediem.
  • Marko reminds us of Peel’s rules for policing.  Remember, police are fighting a low-level conflict all the time, and they need the trust and cooperation of the people to be successful.  Once they lose that, they aren’t much more than an occupying force.
  • Captain Tightpants gives us his views on the Ferguson, Missouri, Kerfluffle of 2014.
  • One of Raindogblue’s compatriots is in a bad way, and could use our thoughts and prayers.
  • Mrs. Homegrown gives some good pointers on using worms to aid in composting.
  • Commander Zero weighs in on the .40 versus 9mm versus .45 ACP debate, and the graphic he uses is worth your price of admission all by itself.

I Believe

Haven’t done one of these in a while, so here goes.

 

I believe that if someone else has to pay for you to exercise your rights, then maybe you need to reevaluate what is and what isn’t a right.

I believe that spreading fear in order to move the masses one way or the other has become a growth industry in American politics.

I believe that stupidity should hurt, and real stupidity should be fatal.

I believe that there is a happy medium between Barney Fife and a jackbooted thug, and that we have swung way over into the jackbooted thug side of things in a lot of places.

I believe in American trucks, Texas barbecue, and Kentucky bourbon, but I’m a true internationalist when it comes to firearms.

I believe that if you let your vote be taken for granted, then you get the politicians you deserve.

I believe that running a lawnmower before 7 AM and after 7 PM ought to be a hanging offense.

I believe that if you can’t play by the rules, then you should go play your games somewhere else.

 

Overheard in the Living Room

Irish Woman – Boo has an appointment with the pediatrician on September 19.

Me – Is it in the calendar?

Irish Woman – Yep.

Me – I have a dentist appointment next Thursday at 2.

Irish Woman, smiling – Is it in the calendar?

Me, smiling and nodding – Yes.

Irish Woman – Why are you making that face at me?

Me – I’m smiling.

Irish Woman – Oh, it looks like you want to rip my head off.  Sorry.

 

Yeah, maybe I need to work on the smile in the mirror a bit.

Movie Quotes – Day 241

Remember, you’re fighting for this woman’s honour, which is probably more than she ever did. — Duck Soup

One of my rules for Girlie Bear is that she has to dress like a lady three times every school week.  Without that rule, she’d be perfectly happy to wear old shorts or jeans and bad attitude tee shirts and sweatshirts.   Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but she needs to be more.  I want her to know how to dress in a feminine manner because I want her to know how to do it without looking like a street-walker.  I want her to know the difference between dressing up to go to the club and getting dressed for work.  I want her to know that, when it comes to cosmetics, less is more.  I want her to learn that being attractive is better than looking trashy.

In other words, I live in abject fear that she might attract the kind of man I used to be, and I’m doing everything I can to prevent that.

Book Review – The Book of Barkley: Love and Life Through the Eyes of a Labrador Retriever

The Book of Barkley:  Love and Life Through the Eyes of a Labrador Retriever, by L.B. Johnson, is a memoir that tells the tale of her experiences raising a puppy and letting it become her companion and protector.  The story Mrs. Johnson tells is at different times funny, introspective, and sad.  From the adventures of teaching a labrador puppy manners and housebreaking him, to the final trip to the vet that all pet owners dread, but know will happen someday, this book gives us a window in to the love and trust between a woman and her best friend.

Mrs. Johnson is an outstanding writer, and the amount of thought that went into this work really shows.  When she describes a scene, such as when Barkley chases a miscreant away from her yard, I could see it playing out in my mind’s eye.  Her descriptions of environments and people are excellent, and her writing evokes emotions on every page.  To be honest, I laughed out loud at a lot of this book, and I shed tears at times.  I can’t say that about most things I read.

However, while this book was not difficult to read, it is not a fast read.  Cover to cover, it took me two weeks to finish it.  This was due to a need to set it down and give myself time to ruminate over the chapter or two that I had just finished.  Like I said, the author is a master at setting a scene and transporting you to a time and place she wants to describe.  After doing that for a while, I needed to think about what she was trying to say and the message she was trying to convey.

One of the best things I can say about any book is that I plan to read it again and that I plan on giving it to my children to read.  The Book of Barkley has found a permanent home on my bookshelf, and once Girlie Bear and her brothers have found a space in their school reading lists, they are going to be encouraged to experience Mrs. Johnson’s story.

In other words, this is a book in which I think everyone will find something that will touch them.  If you’ve ever had that special pet that was your constant companion, you will connect with this story, and I heartily recommend it.

 

Movie Quotes – Day 240

You see, in this world there’s two kinds of people, my friend: Those with loaded guns and those who dig. You dig. — The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

This quote pretty much sums up why I believe in civilian ownership of arms.  So long as there is a point beyond which the government risks armed rebellion, there is a check on stupidity on their part.  I’ve been lots of places where that isn’t the case, and it’s only by the grace of God or tradition that the people aren’t subject to the whims of men with guns.  Usually, the people are slaves, or worse, cattle, and they are subjected to oppression and slaughter when the need arises.

So long as I can help it, that won’t happen here.  I may dig, but I dig because it’s what I want to do.  So long as there’s a loaded gun on my hip, that’ll be the way things are.

Musings

  • If you’re going to insist that students use technology to take your course, then learn to use the technology.
    • Scanning in 40 pages of an old textbook and saving it in a Word document does not count as on-line instruction.
    • Don’t worry, I saved your 73 megabyte file as a .pdf and pared it down to 11 megabytes.  I advised Girlie Bear to share that with her classmates.
  • When using a mandoline to cut up onions, be careful to not slice the end of your finger open. Onion juice in a deep cut is not fun.
  • Putting onions in the dehydrator smells pretty good, actually.
  • Nothing beats a call from the wife asking me to pick up a thermometer on the way home because Boo got sent home from school because he got violently ill.
    • He’ll be fine.  It’s just a stomach bug, and other than the occasional spell of being ill, he’s as chipper as ever.
  • I’ve been playing quiet classical for him all day, and it’s been nice.  One hint, though:   There is only so much classical harp that one man can stand in an 8 hour period.

Movie Quotes – Day 239

You see, the great secret, Eliza, is not a question of good manners or bad manners, or any particular sort of manners, but having the same manner for all human souls. The question is not whether I treat you rudely, but whether you’ve ever heard me treat anyone else better. — My Fair Lady

You can tell a lot about how someone treats people who cannot benefit them.  Do their manners change when they’re dealing with a person behind a cash register?  Are they nice to the car salesman, but treat the mechanic like crap?

If they treat the lowest of the low as well as they treat the highest of the high, then they are truly well-mannered.