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30 Days of Marcus Aurelius – Day 17

Know the joy of life by piling good deed on good deed until no rift or cranny appears between them. — Mediations, Book XII

My Take – I find that my life improves as I spend less and less time making it worse for others.  When I give of myself, my life gets better.

Overheard in the Living Room

Boo, looking at his latest coloring book – Daddy, where does Supaman come fwom?

Me – He comes from Krypton, very far away.

Boo – Mommy, where does Wonda Woman come fwom?

Irish Woman, looking down at the coloring book – Well, apparently she comes from the planet cleavage.  I guess that’s why Daddy likes her.

 

Yep, that’s my soulmate right there.

News Roundup

  • From the “Yes, but” Department – A new study claims that men and women show love for their spouses in different ways.  According to scientists in Texas, men tend to show love by initiating sex, doing household chores, and enjoying leisure time together.  Women, on the other hand, are said to express love by being less antagonistic.  I tend to agree with the findings for men, but not for women.  Irish Woman is affectionate, both with me and with the children.  She also shows her love, and will admit to it if questioned, by cooking certain dishes, doing household work so that I won’t have to when I get home, and not putting up a fight when I say I’m going off to do something for the day.  Honestly, it’s usually her suggestion that I get to the range.   My opinion is that if the only way you can tell that your wife is expressing love is expressing her love for you is that she eased off on starting fights or making pithy comments for a while, maybe you need to re-evaluate your whole “I know she loves me” analysis methods. 
  • From the “Ummm, No” Department – A man in Oklahoma is appealing his sentence for shooting and killing a would-be robber after he had already shot him and the man was down.  Basically, two guys started to rob the store, the man pulled out his gun, shot one of them in the head, causing him to drop.  The other robber ran out of the store with the man in pursuit. The man then returned to the store and shot the already wounded robber to death.  He’s claiming that his Asbergers syndrome made it impossible for him to make a good decision in the chaotic situation.  To this I say:  You should have thought of that before you put the gun in the holster that morning.  You can’t look back on a shooting and say “Wasn’t my fault because I didn’t have the capacity to make a good decision”.  I’m pretty sure that most states have a question to the effect of “Do you have any conditions that would make you unsafe to carry and use a deadly weapon?” on their concealed carry license application.  If you answered honestly, then you shouldn’t have been carrying the gun.  Either that, or you’re grasping at straws because you didn’t control your anger and adrenaline, which I’ll grant is very difficult.  But that’s the responsibility you take when you say “I am responsible for my own safety and security, and a firearm is the tool I am going to use to do it.”  After being shot in the head and laying on the floor bleeding, the deceased was no longer a threat, and neither was his buddy that you chased after he left the store.  Coming back and finishing off the guy you just shot makes it murder, not self defense. 
  • From the “Mother of the Year” Department – A woman in Utah, along with a man in Oregon, are under arrest after the man provided the 13-year-old daughter of the woman with an iPhone loaded with shirtless pictures of himself, and the mother assisted the girl in taking nude photos of herself with the phone and sending them to the man.  Apparently, the mother was OK with this sick situation, and claims that she and the man had agreed that he and the girl would refrain from physical sexual contact until she turned 18.  Well, thank the Lord for small favors!  Hopefully both of the adults in this case are sent somewhere dark, damp, and dirty for a very long time over this, and the young girl gets as much psychological support as can be had.  She’s got a long way back to something approximating “normal” if this is what her mother has been doing to raise her.
  • From the “Atrocity” Department – A 24-year-old man in Colorado has been arrested after police claim he threw a gas or smoke grenade into a theater showing the latest Batman movie, then opened fire on the audience.  Reports are that 12 people are dead and 50 were injured in the attack.  Police are searching his apartment, which appears to be booby-trapped and the suspect claims contains explosives.  I’m not going to go over the detailed and hotly argued self-defense implications of this scenario because I’m sure better minds are already going over that, but my first instinct would be to grab the wife and kids and run.  My gun will be used to clear any threats that are between my family and the exit, not to engage an attacker that is not impeding our progress.  I’d rather be a live coward with an intact family than have people opine about how brave I was to stand between the attacker and the bodies of strangers at my wake or the at my daughter’s hospital bed.  We all have hero fantasies, but this isn’t one of mine.  All of us will be keeping the people hurt by this in our thoughts and prayers.  If you’re of a mind to, please do so as well.  Of course, the normal gang of idiots are clamoring for the government to tighten gun laws.  Basically, murder with guns is bad, so we have to make murdering people with guns more illegaler.  To those who will use this tragedy for gain, on either side of the argument, all I can say is “Shame on you”.  Before you start pushing any agenda, give the families time to bury their dead and heal their hurt.  Oh, and Mayor Bloomberg, there are precisely zero things that a president can do to deter or stop things like this from happening unless you totally disarm the civilian population and put a heavily armed policeman or soldier every few feet in all public spaces.  Even then, it’s no guarantee.  Danger, even the danger of something horrific happening, is the cost of liberty.  In order to take away the right that this monster abused from other monsters, you would have to take it away from all of us, and I will not let anything, even the deaths of children, do that.

30 Days of Marcus Aurelius – Day 16

Say to yourself in the early morning: I shall meet today inquisitive, ungrateful, violent, treacherous, envious, uncharitable men. All these things have come upon them through ignorance of real good and ill. — Meditations, Book II

My Take – My biggest thing to work on is my inability to graciously handle people who don’t know how to act.  I have to remember that a good portion of them were never taught manners or had good examples to learn from.  For them, I try to be a good example and forgive them their ignorance.  The rest, the ones who know better but still decide to act the fool?  Well, they’re not worth the calories.

Today in History

July 20, 1969

 

Thoughts on the Day

  • I have successfully learned something new at work every day this week.  That’s a good feeling.
  • The thermometer on the car said 73 degrees when I left home this morning, 82 when I got to work, 106 when I got back in the car this evening, and 85 when I got home.  Yep, it’s Louisville.
  • It’s rained here two days in a row.  I’m pretty sure that’s the first time that’s happened in a couple of months.
  • Boo is looking at the advertisement for the local super-dooper humongous sporting goods store.  He has announced that he wants one of the pretty guns and a parachute.  Not sure where that’s leading, but it sounds interesting.
  • The farm I buy produce at has canning tomatoes by the ton. This weekend it shall be tomato sauce, diced tomatoes, chili base, and spaghetti sauce.
  • Boo’s school decided it was too muddy to go play outside today.  Heck, to a 4-year-old, it’s never too muddy.
  • I woke up last night to listen to Irish Woman argue with Koshka over who got to sleep in the center of the bed.  I took the smart path and let them hash it out on their own while I went back to sleep.
  • A couple mulberry bushes have decided to spring up next to our pond.  I for one welcome this opportunity to get the machete out of the tool closet.
    • Yeah, they’re only 1/2 inch in diameter at best, but any excuse to use the machete is a good excuse to use the machete.
  • Apparently Roger Daltry and Pete Townshend are bringing their back-up band to Louisville in February.  I may have to get tickets to see the “We Didn’t Plan For Retirement Very Well” tour.

30 Days of Marcus Aurelius – Day 15

If any man can convince me and bring home to me that I do not think or act aright, gladly will I change; for I search after truth, by which man never yet was harmed. But he is harmed who abideth on still in his deception and ignorance. — Meditations, Book VI

My Take – When you hold to your idea of what is and what is not, even when shown incontrovertible proof to the contrary, you move from the realm of knowledge into the world of belief.  Now, there’s nothing wrong with beliefs.  We all have them, but they’re not facts.  Every time someone, with respect and consideration, shows you a new way or tells you a new fact, you should evaluate its truthfulness, and if it passes the sniff test, incorporate it into what you know and what you do.  “We’ve always done it this way” or “That’s not what I was taught” are excuses to not learn, and once you stop learning, you start to stop living.  Old dogs learn new tricks all the time, they just have to remember that the old ways aren’t the only ways.

Today’s Earworm – NSFW

OK, this one steps away from my normal PG rating a tad.  So unless you want old people to burst into flames and children to explode, put on your headphones.

 

This is in honor of the man who was given an extra frisking at the San Francisco airport because of the size of his schwanz.

 

An Announcement

This is just for the people of Louisville, Kentucky, and those who live in the immediate area.

This Saturday, starting at about 5 AM, school buses will be travelling through our neighborhoods.  If you were out driving in Louisville today, please wait for one at the corner nearest your home and get on it. 

You will be taken to the new downtown arena, where coffee, cold water, and light snacks will be available for your enjoyment.  Starting at 8 AM, Mr. Torkelson, the long-suffering gym teacher who was also my high school drivers education instructor, will be presenting his entire curriculum, including a showing of “Blood Runs Red on the Highway”.  Mr. Torkelson has graciously agreed to come out of retirement.   This should take a few hours, so please plan accordingly.

Following a quick  break for lunch, which will be catered by local sandwich shops, we will all sit down and re-take our drivers license written tests.  If you pass the test, you will then be taken outside to re-take the on-the-road test in a car that will be provided by the local used car dealers.  Yes, you will be parallel parking, merging onto a highway, and changing lanes.  Some of you might need to put in a little practice and study time in the next couple days.

Failure to pass either of these tests will cause immediate, permanent revocation of your license to operate a motor vehicle.  Sorry, there is no make-up or re-test.  This is your last chance. 

I am sorry that this drastic step must be taken, but the fact that I felt the need to speak horrible profanities at you so often today while driving to and from work that I started repeating myself when I ran out of unique identifiers for y’all shows that a little re-training is in order.  Oh, and driving without a license has become an offense punishable by summary execution, along with most moving violations, including a new one “Driving While Stupid”.

See y’all on Saturday!

30 Days of Marcus Aurelius – Day 14

Have I done something for the general interest? Well then I have had my reward. Let this always be present to thy mind, and never stop doing such good. — Meditations, Book XI

My Take – Knowing that I have done a good job is reward enough for me.  Getting thanked is always nice, but when I do well, I do it for my own satisfaction.