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Today’s Earworm

Movie Quotes – Day 25

I didn’t come here to harass. I came here to reward. — Who Framed Roger Rabbit

“Beware of Greeks bearing gifts” should have mentioned government.  When you take Caesar’s coin, you become Caesar’s slave.

A tyrant who buys your subservience is more insidious and much more dangerous than one who kicks in the door and forces your submission.  By accepting their largess, you make yourself part of the problem, and it becomes hard for you to oppose tyranny once it finally goes so far that you can’t help but recognize it.  Nothing is free, and you will pay a lot for gifts from those who want your loyalty and subservience, even if they come wrapped up in a bow and delivered with a paternal smile.

Movie Quotes – Day 24

Thank you… but I’d rather die behind the chemical sheds. — V For Vendetta

You have to keep your honor and self-respect.  Doing the right thing is sometimes the hardest thing you can imagine, but the easy wrong can destroy you.  Hopefully it’s not an everyday experience for you, but there will be times when you will have to make decisions that will have huge consequences, either for you or for someone you love.  The trick is to be able to look yourself in the mirror afterward.

I have a simple test for these situations:  If I can’t imagine telling my children about my decision and why I made it, then I know it’s not the right thing to do.

Movie Quotes – Day 23

You know, Rick, I have many a friend in Casablanca, but somehow, just because you despise me, you are the only one I trust.  — Casablanca

I don’t need friends who will tell me what I want to hear.  I need people who aren’t afraid to tell me the truth, even if they are people I don’t care for.  I have a better working relationship with people who cannot stand me, but we both know that the other is going to do the right thing, and will call the other one out when they start to do something stupid, than I do with people who want everyone to be their friend and are afraid to be brutally honest.

Thoughts on the Day

  • This morning, I woke up two hours early, forgot my eyeglasses, medicine, and breakfast, and left my wife home alone with the kids because school was delayed.
    • Tomorrow ought to be better, although school’s already delayed again.
    • Still don’t know where my glasses case is.  Luckily, I found the spare set I lost a couple of weeks ago.
  • Dogs are carnivores, right?
    • Apparently Moonie has a taste for fresh fruit. He cleaned out the bananas in the fruit bowl, and several of the apples had tooth marks.

A Confession

Hi, I’m DaddyBear, and I have a confession to make:

I am a heartless bastard.

I am a heartless bastard because I object to being told that everyone else’s life is none of my business, that is until it’s time to write a check to pay for it.

I am a heartless bastard because I believe that there should be shame in taking charity for one second longer than you absolutely need to.

I am a heartless bastard because I expect children, no matter their socio-economic, cultural, or family circumstances to call me “Sir” and have good manners.

I am a heartless bastard because I expect parents to provide for their children before they provide for themselves.

I am a heartless bastard because I am unashamed to tell people that life isn’t guaranteed to be easy, comfortable, or fun.

I am a heartless bastard because sometimes, albeit rarely, I will look at someone and decide that they are just not worth the calories, oxygen, and space they take up.

So, that’s my confession.  I am DaddyBear, and I am a heartless bastard.

Movie Quotes – Day 22

Jane, since I’ve met you, I’ve noticed things that I never knew were there before… birds singing, dew glistening on a newly formed leaf, stoplights. — The Naked Gun: From the Files of Police Squad!

Being around Irish Woman helps me to see the world in ways that I never have before.  Her aspect on life is very different from mine, and every so often, I see things through her eyes.  She notices things about people and how they interact that I would never have considered.

In other words, letting others show you how they see the world can lead you to broadening and enriching your outlook.

Musings

  • Want to see something well built?  Try taking apart the basement bar built by a raging alcoholic in the 1970’s.
    • This guy couldn’t dig a footer for a retaining wall to save his life, but he made sure the place he kept his booze was secure and solid.
    • Some of this wood is what I have taken to calling “iron pine”.  It’s lumber that’s so old and hard that it breaks off screws if I don’t drill a pilot hole.  I salvaged everything I could.
    • Next on the hit parade – relocating the 450 pound Coke machine.  I must really, really love my wife.
  • Good – Getting a new stoneware muffin pan for Christmas that is supposed to make huge muffins.
  • Good – Trying it out by making strawberry muffins from scratch.
  • Not so good – Forgetting to put in the baking powder.
  • Bad – Instead of a sweet, moist, fluffy treat, I ended up with half a dozen 88mm frangible semi-wadcutters.
  • Koshka decided to help Girlie Bear with her homework this morning by taking a nap on top of her history textbook.
    • Girlie Bear had a long talk with her about it, but Koshka maintains that she is an expert in early American colonial history, so she can really be an asset.
    • Koshka later came to me to plead her case, and I must say, she made some good points.
  • School was called today because Kentucky apparently can’t figure out how to keep the streets open and safe when 3 to 4 inches of snow fall, with temperatures in the mid to high 20’s.
    • Funny thing, states like North Dakota, Minnesota, Wisconsin, and Montana all figure it out pretty regularly.
  • The schools are on a 2 hour delay tomorrow with no precipitation in the forecast.  
    • Temps are going to be in the teens overnight.  
    • guess someone wants to snuggle up in their flannel sheets tomorrow instead of cowboying up and putting on their long underwear.
  • Commuters were driving 14 miles an hour on the interstate highway this morning, but I saw remarkably few stupidity crashes, so I guess it was worth it.
  • There was almost a foot of snow drifted into my driveway when I got home, but that didn’t last.
    • I may rarely fire up my weed eater in the summer, but I always do my best to make sure the driveway and sidewalk is shoveled.

Movie Quotes – Day 21

It’s a fine line between standing behind a principle and hiding behind one. You can tolerate a little compromise, if you’re actually managing to get something accomplished. — Independence Day

We have our core values, which we should never compromise.  For me, they include not harming others needlessly and the  protection of civil rights, including those to privacy, arms, and speech.  But when we are trying to find a solution to a problem, so long as we don’t violate those values, we should at least consider the opinions and proposals of those who disagree with us.  We must look for the things we share rather than emphasize the areas in which we differ.

That being said, it is quite easy and depressingly common for core values to be forgotten in exchange for temporary leverage or a payoff.  Additionally, every time we compromise on the basic things we believe in, the harder it becomes to defend them later.  Be willing to compromise on some things, but never forget who you really are.

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