No, if she had hated you she would have merely killed you. A curse takes devotion. — Dark Shadows

There are a lot of people who irritate me. There is a multitude of people for whom I have no feelings whatsoever. There are quite a few people I like, and even a few that I love. But there are only a handful that I truly dislike or even hate.  Such feelings take too much energy, and if I dislike you, why waste the energy?