A man should be what he can do. — From Here to Eternity
At some point, I went from saying “I’m in the Army” to saying “I’m a soldier.” At some point, I stopped saying “We have kids” to saying “We’re parents.” Once you internalize what you do to the point that it’s a part of what you are, you’ve truly bought into it, and you start to become truly adept at it.
DaddyBear’s Den 