I don’t care how rich he is, as long as he has a yacht, his own private railroad car, and his own toothpaste.  — Some Like It Hot

Face it, gentlemen, a ripped set of abs, a flowing mane of shiny hair, and a brilliant smile don’t hurt, but they will only take you so far.  Once the infatuation wears off, you’re going to have to offer more if you want more than a roll in the hay.  No mature woman is going to stay with you without some security and stability.  It never hurts to bring everything that you need to the table so that she knows she isn’t going to have to support your hairy butt.  Before you go looking for Miss Right Now, remember that she may turn into Miss Right, and she isn’t going to stick around for a broke Prince Charming.  It never hurts to know how to do the dishes, change a diaper, fix the car, and cook a meal, either.