I believe it. My wife says, “Darling, you won’t believe it, but I found the most adorable baby on our doorstep and I’ve decided to keep it for our very own. Now you won’t believe it, but it’s got exactly my eyes and nose.” Why does she keep saying I won’t believe it? I believe it! I believe it. — Stalag 17

You have to be willing to overlook the imperfections.  Lord knows that Irish Woman is fully capable of concentrating on the positives when she looks at me.  If you spend your life looking for someone who is perfect or thinking about the ways that someone misses the mark, then you’re going to be miserable and take those around you along for the ride.