I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave. — Labrynth

It’s not difficult to get those who wish to rule over you to do what you want.  All it takes is total subordination of your will and your freedom to their whim.  After you do that, they will make sure you have everything you need in order to follow their orders.

That’s why freedom is so hard.  Very few people are going to help you out unless there is something to be gained from it.  Doing for yourself and jealously guarding your rights means you have to stand on your own, always.  Putting yourself in debt to someone else for what you need or want makes them your master.