Hi, I’m DaddyBear, and I have a confession to make:
I am a heartless bastard.
I am a heartless bastard because I object to being told that everyone else’s life is none of my business, that is until it’s time to write a check to pay for it.
I am a heartless bastard because I believe that there should be shame in taking charity for one second longer than you absolutely need to.
I am a heartless bastard because I expect children, no matter their socio-economic, cultural, or family circumstances to call me “Sir” and have good manners.
I am a heartless bastard because I expect parents to provide for their children before they provide for themselves.
I am a heartless bastard because I am unashamed to tell people that life isn’t guaranteed to be easy, comfortable, or fun.
I am a heartless bastard because sometimes, albeit rarely, I will look at someone and decide that they are just not worth the calories, oxygen, and space they take up.
So, that’s my confession. I am DaddyBear, and I am a heartless bastard.
DaddyBear’s Den 
Shane W
/ January 22, 2014Hmmmmm…. It seems I’m a heartless bastard too. Prehaps we should form a club. Heartless Bastards of America, maybe? I bet we’d have quite a few members. Although not near enough.
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David
/ January 22, 2014Proud to be a heartless bastard. Good to know you Sir.
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Bob
/ January 22, 2014Hi DB,
Yes I am also a heartless bastard…and if you listen to some people I am also a “sumbitch”…So we are in good company.
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Stephen
/ January 22, 2014Join the world of the rest of us….me too. Like David said.
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hollychism
/ January 22, 2014Dittos on all of the above.
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3boxesofbs
/ January 22, 2014“Hi I’m DaddyBear and I’m not just a Heartless Bastard. I’m the founder and president of the Heartless Bastard Club of America. Don’t feel like you have to go it along; there are million of men (and women – equal opportunity yanno) just like you out there.
Join HBCA and you’ll receive a bumper sticker “Raise your own kid, I’m too busy raising mine”, a Coffee mug (side says “what do you want me to do now” and the bottom says “the answer is NO”) and a door sign announcing your membership in HBCA. ”
For some reason that 15 second TV ad just flashed through my mind.
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daddybear71
/ January 22, 2014Slow clap and head nod.
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Shane W
/ January 22, 2014Awesome!
I hereby nominate 3boxesofbs as Director of Advertising.
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Jennifer
/ January 22, 2014Sign me up
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michigan doug
/ January 22, 2014Yep.Member of the club.
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oldnfo
/ January 22, 2014+1 over here too!
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bikergranny2
/ January 22, 2014I, too, will proudly join this club, sir!
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daddybear71
/ January 22, 2014OK, so we have interest in HBOA and a creed. What would the logo look like?
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Shane W
/ January 24, 2014Maybe a hand, palm up, reaching for a handout with the “buster” slash over it?
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mrgarabaldi
/ January 22, 2014How about a “yes” and the red slashy circle thingie on it?
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pediem
/ January 23, 2014Or just a stop sign with the word NO! on it?
I’m definitely a member, by the way.
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